Sunday, June 19, 2011

Days Go By, Not Love: Chapter Excerpt

On Tuesday June 14, 2011 Best-Selling Author & Clairvoyant Therese Benedict's book Days Go By, Not Love became a #1 Best-Seller in multiple categories on Amazon. As a special thank you to everyone Therese is providing a chapter excerpt from her #1 Best-Selling Book Days Go By, Not Love.  Be sure to go to www.DaysGoByNotLove.com to see how you can claim your FREE Bonus Gifts.

Your journey is your life,
so trust in your steps.

An Excerpt from: Days Go By, Not Love
By #1 Best-Selling Author & Clairvoyant
Therese Benedict

Journeys are an experience of love, chance,
forgiveness, change and the strength to push through the anger, frustration and self doubt. Journeys are life’s lessons many times over. Take your journey with all your love and strength that is hidden within you so that you can feel the doors open for more love. Take this time for you, whether you are alone or not. Take this journey to open your closed doors. Take this journey knowing you are changing your life. Trust, believe and know it will be hard, however have faith in yourself that you can get through those moments. Know that hard times will come to you, but not harm you. Know that love will conquer and not destroy.

Be all of you when walking this road of change, so that you can transform this doubt into self belief. Believe in yourself and believe in God. Let life be good to you, instead of being afraid of life. Learn to live. Learn not to be lost with the ones’ you love; learn to be lost without them. Learn to miss them when you are with them, and don’t wait until they are gone. Learn to reach out to them when they are in your life and don’t wait until you are wishing you had when they are not. Learn to give and not to take. Learn to trust and not to accuse with doubt. Learn to ask, instead of expect. Learn to speak truth, in place of lies. Learn to be who you are meant to be. Learn to believe in yourself and learn to let others believe in you too. Learn to listen and not just to be heard. Learn to accept, instead of turning your head. Learn to be happy with God all the time and not just when you need him. Learn to pray to him in place of getting mad at him, for he is only teaching you where your life is going.

Learn to laugh more, instead of cry more. Learn to wipe away others’ tears, and not cause them. It sounds so simple, but we aren’t realizing what we are causing, instead of what we should be empathizing. Let’s bring happiness and stop the harm. Let’s walk this journey with courage, to endure your life without excuses of why not too. Learn to talk about the feelings you feel inside and act on them. They are there for a reason. Meaning, that if you know it is wrong, don’t do it. Do what is right. Trust in yourself with love for you. Be good and you will receive good all around you.

Life is meant for reasons we may never know, but that is not a reason to make it harder for others for things we do not understand. Just because we don’t know the true reasons why we are here, does not mean we should destroy this gift given to us. This journey can help you enjoy what has been given to you. It will help you see that it is a gift of love, and learn what love is all about. Live with love in our soul, and feel the pain of love, so we may learn to treat love right.

Do you ever wonder if love is the reason why we are here? If you really think about it, isn’t that what life is all about? Everything connects to the end result of love. Love is the reason we are here and yet we play love like a game of ping pong; hitting our hearts back and fourth to no remorse. It’s a sad conclusion when our fear drowns the love we long to receive and give in return.

Take the help from your angels and learn to love fully and learn the pain of love. The pain helps us learn what love is about and who we truly are inside. It helps us learn what we need in someone and to see the good and bad in people. It helps us to see what we do not want to become and who we want to be. This is why we should not be afraid of the hurt when it comes to opening our hearts. We know we can learn something from the experience and/or find the treasures we have been seeking. Instead of tearing people down by throwing faults in their face, we should be making them feel special and let them know that they are meaningful in our lives. We need to stop walking around this life scared. Know the angels will not let harm come to you, especially when it is not your time to pass. Live your life with them, so you feel their protection. Do not live just knowing everyone has angels.

Talk to your angels with all your fears, worries, and even the good in your life. They love when we walk our journey of life hand-in-hand with them. So, take hold of them; you will be amazed what you see and learn by their messages. Seeing all their messages brings a comfort and serenity to your soul. You’ll see the energy, and know it is them and/or your loved ones, not just a chill in the air. You can feel them touch your shoulder, hold your hand, place a hand on your knee, or just standing by your side. It can be a little scary for some at first, but you will learn to embrace the touch. You can even see them, but again some of us, not all, just think to ourselves that we really didn’t see anything and it was just our imagination. I can tell you it is not.

Know when you hear them—it is your loved ones. You will not hear your angels; you will only get their response through their messages, and let me tell you, they like to talk. You will see your life in a completely different way. You will love the comfort that comes from them knowing they are with you. Learn to talk to them throughout your day. The more you talk to them, the more you see their messages. You will smile at what you see. You will sigh with relief. You will laugh many times over for the fact you are happy and receiving their messages. You will love it more and more each day. You will start looking forward to your days, instead of dreading them. You start to build a relationship with the angels and feel the relationship get stronger and stronger. The nice thing is that you learn that you have angels that you can trust. The beautiful moment is when you know that you can tell them everything and it won’t leak out and it will stay private. You start loving them and holding on to them; it’s no longer just the angels holding on to you.

You will learn to understand that they hear your prayers and that you can count on them. You know they won’t hurt you, and they will be there for you when issues arise. Walk this beautiful journey with them and change you from the inside out. It is so beautiful to have angels from heaven living your life with you. You will never feel alone through the hard times or pain ever again. You can talk to them in all situations knowing the angels will take care of you on your path of change.

It is a scary realization; however, you will learn that you just need to keep walking with them no matter how hard it gets. Then, watch the beautiful outcome. Give the angels your love and learn what pure love is supposed to be. You feel safe with them. You feel that you are loved in the right way. You feel that you have someone on your side in life. They help bring you the light and take away the darkness. They help you succeed on your journey throughout your whole life. So let’s take that journey of life, and learn where we are going, and not worry where we will end up.

Walk this journey with eyes wide open and not half shut. Learn to look all around your journey and not just look straight ahead. Don’t worry about what is at the end of the road because life is about the journey not the final destination. So, walk this life knowing there is not an ending to your journey because your journey does not come to an end. The only thing that comes to an end is the evil, not the journey. The journey keeps going and going....


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Sunday, May 1, 2011

Amazon Best-Seller

This message comes to you with great excitement and sheer joy...

I am happy to announce that my book Days Go By, Not Love (Book 1) has been listed on Amazon's Best-Sellers List in two different categories for the past two weeks.
http://www.amazon.com/Days-Love-Beautiful-Journey-Change/dp/1615668322

If you have not yet had a chance to pick up your copy of Days Go By, Not Love I encourage you to do so…This book reaches out to anyone who needs to heal and to move forward with a life of love and peace. This book helps to bring eternal happiness from within and not just externally in our lives…

I have also provided a few of my radio interviews, articles and social media links in case you’d like to learn more about me, my writings or my book. Be sure to follow me on Twitter and Facebook to receive my daily inspirational quotes and messages.


RADIO INTERVIEWS:

Be The Light Now ~ with Host Michael Carbone
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/bethelightnow/2011/04/09/clairvoyant-therese-benedict

The Best People We Know ~ with Host Deb Scott
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thebestpeopleweknow/2011/02/22/theresa-benedict

World of Unexplained Mysteries-Radio Series ~ with Host Dr. Peter J. Shields http://vegasmysteries.com/images/KLAV_Logging_925.mp3

AM 970 WSTX ~ with Senator Holland Redfield of the Virgin Islands
http://www.wstxam.com/ [October 19, 2010]

KAFM 88.1 ~ Community Radio & Beyond
http://kafmradio.org/ [August 4, 2010]


RECENT ARTICLES & INTERVIEWS:

Watering The Seed of A Relationship ~ By Therese Benedict
http://www.familyhealthguide.co.uk/watering-the-seed-of-a-relationship.html

OM Times Magazine ~ Book Review (Pg. 126)
http://content.yudu.com/Library/A1qqfn/OMTimesMagazineFebru/resources/index.htm?referrerUrl=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.yudu.com%2Fitem%2Fdetails%2F276642%2FOM-Times-Magazine-February-Edition

To Be Who We Are Meant To Be ~ By Therese Benedict
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/to-be-who-you-are-meant-to-be

From The Inside Out Magazine ~ By Lynne Bozeman
http://fromtheinsideoutmag.com/issue/feb-2011/article/days-go-by-not-love-a-beautiful-journey-of-change

To Love Is To Be Loved ~ By Therese Benedict
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/to-love-is-to-be-loved

The Magic of Being ~ By Colin Whitby
http://themagicofbeing.squarespace.com/interviews/an-interview-with-therese-benedict.html

Your First Steps To Changing ~ By Therese Benedict
http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/your-first-steps-to-changing


PRESS RELEASES:

Author & Clairvoyant Release Life Changing Book

WEBSITES:

Days Go By Not Love – Book Promo

Days Go By, Not Love – Publisher’s Site

BLOG:


SOCIAL MEDIA:







AMAZON BEST-SELLER:

Days Go By, Not Love


With Love,

Therese

Friday, February 4, 2011

From The Inside Out Magazine: Book Review

This month Therese's book, Days Go By, Not Love was highlighted in the holistic E- monthly publication From The Inside Out Magazine; dedicated to an expanding awareness that will support the integration of the mind, body, emotions and soul http://www.fromtheinsideoutmag.com/. Here you will find articles, interviews, art, music, poetry and community news supporting all those seeking personal development and spiritual growth starting from the inside then expanding out. From The Inside Out Magazine aims to give their reader’s access to information that will allow them to actualize their spiritual consciousness and human potential, through personal wellness. While conscious of a higher purpose in our lives, we also want to remain well grounded, acknowledging the need to be productive on this physical plane. From The Inside Out Magazine seeks to contribute to the growth of humanity in coming to understand that we are all connected. We believe we all have the power to make a difference by expanding our own perceptions and beliefs.

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Change Your Life...Now!

Welcome to a new editorial series called: Change Your Life…Now!

This editorial series is written to help, inspire, guide and motivate everyone from all walks of life to face their challenges, identify barriers, discover miracles and find their true happiness while continuing their quest for emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Author & Clairvoyant, Therese Benedict, invites you to share your personal stories, provide insight from past or present experiences and most importantly engage with those who are struggling with everyday life situations. Topics range from: loneliness, heartache, depression, lack of hope, longing for love, battling addictions, abuse, domestic violence and/or other life-challenging situations that can take away from one’s happiness and well-being.

Get ready for a spiritually uplifting and inspirational journey as Author & Clairvoyant, Therese Benedict, helps you and others heal from your past and love who you are while showing you the steps to take to finding true happiness.

Query & Answer Forum:

Query:
"Lets see it started last year. I lost my job, then I got sick, then my niece died, then I got sick, then I filed bankruptcy and lost my car, then my best friend betrayed me, and last but not least my boyfriend of 7 years broke up with me on Saturday. So if anyone needs a change right now it’s me. I would love help in changing how I feel right now."

- Aimee B. Atlanta, GA

Answer:

Aimee,

First I would like to say that I am sorry for your loss with your niece’s passing. Now, you need to remember that because she has past, does not me that she is not here anymore. She is a person of creativity and spunk and she is happy where she is right now. She shows you signs that she is with you so keep a good look out for them and do not put them aside with thinking that it is your imagination. You can speak to her and know that she can hear you and she can reply to you with messages and signs.

With your job…you need to know that the door to your job has closed because it was time for a new door to open in your life. When it is time for something to change in your life and you need to go in a new direction…situations that seem to be hard actually are a blessing…it is just hard to see at that moment.

With your illness, it is because you are stressed and do not know how to handle hardships very well. If you look at the sequence of what you have written it shows you that you are getting sick in emotional moments. You lost your job and you got sick. You have the loss your niece and you got sick. Learn to be stronger in situations and understand that these situations are occurring because it is time for them to arise.

With regards to your best friend betraying you, it was for you to see that your friend was not the friend you thought you had. To open your eyes to see that your friend was not the person you should be having in your life…for many reasons as you should know. When you are not around good people and you are not being true to yourself and not seeing your actions hardships do come into play. So focus on you, what you are doing in your life, and be around more positive people.

As to your boyfriend breaking up with you…look at it as a positive situation. Did you ever think that you have someone better getting ready to walk into your life and with you being with someone who does not appreciate you can take that opportunity away? So again, it can be a good thing and in your case with your relationship, it was.

Read your second to last sentence. “So if anyone needs a change right now it’s me.” Now look at everything you have written….do you not see that you are getting your change. So you see Aimee, it is not as bad as you are feeling with these awful emotions that are stirring inside of you. Look at your life and see what you need to change within you and your life. Work on you and watch the rest fall into place.

Try and find the reasons and the positive in your hardships. Look at yourself and be honest. Be willing to be strong and correct issues that need to be corrected. Know that you have the power to accomplish this and be happy.

You can do it!

Therese

Change Your Life...Now!

Welcome to a new editorial series called: Change Your Life…Now!

This editorial series is written to help, inspire, guide and motivate everyone from all walks of life to face their challenges, identify barriers, discover miracles and find their true happiness while continuing their quest for emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Author & Clairvoyant, Therese Benedict, invites you to share your personal stories, provide insight from past or present experiences and most importantly engage with those who are struggling with everyday life situations. Topics range from: loneliness, heartache, depression, lack of hope, longing for love, battling addictions, abuse, domestic violence and/or other life-challenging situations that can take away from one’s happiness and well-being.

Get ready for a spiritually uplifting and inspirational journey as Author & Clairvoyant, Therese Benedict, helps you and others heal from your past and love who you are while showing you the steps to take to finding true happiness.

Query & Answer Forum:

Query:
“There are a few caveats in play for me. I’ve recently moved back to the east coast (from California) to live with my boyfriend and blend our families. Our relationship has fizzled out very quickly and it feels like were just roommates with kids. We’re close but not intimate. I feel like I’m just here to replace his wife and the issues were having are the same that he says ended his marriage. I’m 42 with 2 children 4 and 17. I’ve never been married.

I am working on mustering up the energy to find a job. I lost my business - I’ve been self-employed for 10+ years. Again, living on the east coast is unfamiliar and I don’t have any contacts. I’m out of my comfort zone: struggle with feeling unemployable, then yesterday my bank accounts were just frozen and emptied because of a debt I’ve been unable to pay. I have so many desires and I gave them all up for what I believed to be stability and love when what I really feel is imprisoned and unable to stand on my own two feet.  For years I’ve depended on other people to support me and my children. I believe my fear of success and the state of lack that I always seem to be in stems from childhood beliefs, I mean, of course it does. I’ve been working on them for years and still hit these walls that knock me off course. I feel very alone in my spiritual beliefs. I don’t have anyone to talk to or work with to really deal with and overcome this lesson. I know there will always be more. It is my will and intention to live a higher life yet I’m at this wall and can’t stop crying. My addiction - struggle - it feels horribly normal.”

- Pamela L., Paramus, NJ

Answer:

Pamela,

Regarding your relationship, your feelings are on track. You are seeing truth at its finest. Blending families in a relationship takes time and an adjustment period. However, when you are no longer being intimate you need to be honest with yourself that something is wrong. When you have the closeness but not the expression of intimacy you cannot turn your head and acknowledge that there are feelings not being said. You need to understand that when you are dealing with the same problems that ended his marriage – these issues lie within him. When you are noticing the changes you are seeing, you have to really be strong and think to yourself…is this road going to where he once was (to an end of a relationship)? By not facing the facts that you are living, will only keep you at misery with tears.

You need to become strong and take the steps that are in your soul, so you may leave your imprisonment and to show you that you are capable of standing on your own two feet. Let your children be your strength, let your happiness motivate you and bring back your desire so you may find your way to peace.

If you do not go back to California, then make this unfamiliar place…familiar. You need to have faith in yourself that you can make these changes that you desire. If you have struggles with that, then show yourself and your children that you can make those steps that take courage. Do not let your financial situation pin you down and control your life. Know that you can overcome this.

Never give up your desires, if you do not want others to support you any longer than just know that time can change something you do not want to something you always wanted. Do not let fear take control of you and hold you back from success. Know that you have the power to change those childhood beliefs into something beautiful. This journey will be hard for you, but know that it will be a journey of knowledge, wisdom and growth for you and your children. When you hit those walls that take you off course, stand up and walk back to the directions you wish to go.

Regarding your spiritual beliefs, you are never alone. Heaven is always with you, even if you cannot see your angels or loved ones with the naked eye. Talk to them more and ask them for help. Ask a little at a time, so you may see their answers. Believe me; they do hear you and they are here to help. So take their hand and let them lead the way. Watch for the event that comes up and look for the message of where you need to go with your life for you and your family.

When some feel that misery is normal, they need to go in another direction in life so they may heal and have happiness with love.

You can conquer this!

Therese

Change Your Life…Now!

Welcome to a new editorial series called: Change Your Life…Now!

This editorial series is written to help, inspire, guide and motivate everyone from all walks of life to face their challenges, identify barriers, discover miracles and find their true happiness while continuing their quest for emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Author & Clairvoyant, Therese Benedict, invites you to share your personal stories, provide insight from past or present experiences and most importantly engage with those who are struggling with everyday life situations. Topics range from: loneliness, heartache, depression, lack of hope, longing for love, battling addictions, abuse, domestic violence and/or other life-challenging situations that can take away from one’s happiness and well-being.

Get ready for a spiritually uplifting and inspirational journey as Author & Clairvoyant, Therese Benedict, helps you and others heal from your past and love who you are while showing you the steps to take to finding true happiness.

Query & Answer Forum:

Query:
“I am thrice divorced all bad cheating women, I struggle with loneliness and I am a single father with custody of my twin 7 year old sons. I have symptoms of depression. I am fearful of finding a new wife or girlfriend and having the same thing happen again. Almost every girlfriend I have had has cheated.”

Terry S. Lexington, Kentucky

Answer:

Terry,

When it comes to being with people who have cheated on you, they have made a very selfish decision to scare your heart for life. In addition, you carry pain, hurt, anger, self doubt and fear until you decide to heal from this pain you do not wish to carry. What you need to do is focus on you and your sons without the mind set of trying to find a relationship. Take a break from relationships and give yourself the attention you need to heal as much as you can. You do this by building your self esteem and learning that you are important and that it was not you who have made others do such a wrong action against someone. People who cheat only think of themselves and they commit these acts without having to carry the emotional pain that they are so willing to give. So understand even with these occurrences in your life, be happy that they are not in your life.

You want someone that you can love, that you can trust that they will love you the same without selfish acts of destruction. You need to come to the realization that you can be happy without a relationship. Love you and your sons the way you wish someone would love you. Build yourself up, replenish your confidence and start working on you and your family’s needs.

When you take several months with focus on your life, you find you again. When you are ready for a true relationship, you will feel that you are ready to take those steps without fear. You need to trust that God and his angels will bring you a better person in your life and when they do…take the time to get to know them before making a commitment. Learn of their past, morals, values and life experiences. Communicate with them so you may see deeper meanings of a person before any serious decisions are made regarding a relationship. By doing this you will feel safer before you give your heart once more.

Stay strong and be positive!

Therese

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Days Go By, Not Love - Prize Winners

I am happy to announce the winners of the Days Go By, Not Love book launch campaign have been selected. Please see below to see who the winners are and how you can be entered into a weekly drawing…

FREE Private Session: (30) Minute Session With Therese Benedict
Therese Benedict is a clairvoyant with an undeniable gift, which allows an authentic and direct communication with God and his angels. Throughout every moment of her life, Therese works endlessly with the angelic realm to bring love, peace, and healing of past and present to help change your wrong actions to right by giving you the knowledge of the wrong and giving you the answers to the right. Please Note: Private Session Winners will need to email Therese directly at yourjourney_1@yahoo.com to schedule a time and date for their private session.

Private Session Winners:
1. Rosi Schlich                      Bad M√ľnstereifel, Germany             53902
2. Marian Forbert                  White Salmon, Washington             98672
3. Carun Bornman                 Valhalla, South Africa                       0185

First Prize: $50.00 SalonSpa.com Virtual Gift Certificate
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First Prize: Winners
1. Joan Brown                       Pennsburg, PA          18073
2. Steve Valencia                  Pine Grove, CA         95665
3. Lois Link                            Patton, PA                 16668
4. Julie Smiskey                    La Vernon, UT           84745

Second Prize: Amazon Kindle Wireless Reading Device
Kindle is the #1 bestselling item for two years running. It’s also the most-wished-for, most-gifted, and has the most 5-star reviews of any product on Amazon. Now it's even better.
Please Note: Winner will be notified through email with further details of how to receive the Amazon Kindle wireless reading device.  

Second Prize Winner:
Michael Simmer                    Boston, MA                02119

Grand Prize: 3Day/2Night Los Abrigados Resort & Spa Weekend Getaway + (2) 1-Hour Massages

Los Abrigados Resort & Spa in Sedona is located on the banks of Oak Creek on 22 acres and offers views of Sedona famous Red Rocks. The resort features: pools, hot tub, on-site restaurant, fitness center, full-service spa and personal Concierge service.  The Jerome suite offers fully-equipped kitchenette, private patio or balcony and sleeps four comfortably.
Please Note: The Los Abrigados Resort & Spa Weekend Getaway winner will be notified through email with further details of how to receive their resort and spa package.

Grand Prize Winner:
Chad Cowman                      Sacramento, CA       95691

Would you like the opportunity to win a FREE 30-Minute Private Session with Therese Benedict each week? Visit her website for more details…

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Change Your Life...Now!

What if you could change your life forever… http://goo.gl/SPTTV

 

Would you take the opportunity? Trust your intuition? Let go of your fears and challenge your beliefs? Or would you let it pass you by, allow fear to overwhelm your thoughts…And let your doubts consume every opportunity for true happiness, unconditional love and a new beginning? http://goo.gl/SPTTV

 

There are so many situations in life that many of us do not know how to get through. Loneliness, heartache, depression – lack of hope, longing for love: wanting answers...Each and every day millions of people, just like you, search for the answers to life’s situations. Whether it’s a past hurt, a bad relationship, abuse, addictions, family crisis, wanting to change our wrong actions to right, starting a new year’s resolution, reaching greater happiness or looking for inspiration, you want to find these answers and find them quickly…

 

Discover the answers to life’s true meaning as Author & Clairvoyant, Therese Benedict, guides you on a beautiful journey of change… http://goo.gl/SPTTV

 

Find out how you can Change Your Life…Now! & Enter-To-Win these gifts:

 

3-Day/2-Night Sedona Resort & Spa Weekend Getaway

Amazon Kindle Wireless Reading Device

$50 Salon Spa Gift Certificate

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